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Discover the Path to a New Authentic You

Welcome to YOUR Journey of Self-Discovery and Self-Love

Are you ready to be unapologetically YOU

and embrace a life of empowerment and fulfillment?

Welcome to Selfie School,

where you will be guided to redefine your relationship with yourself. My mission is to help you to unlock your true potential, developing deep self-love, confidence, and inner peace.

Why Transform Your Relationship with Yourself?

  • Cultivate Self-Love: Discover the profound love and respect for yourself that you deserve.
  • Boost Confidence: Develop a strong, unshakeable belief in your abilities and worth.
  • Enhance Personal Growth: Embrace continuous self-improvement and a positive mindset.
  • Achieve Inner Peace: Find balance and harmony within, creating a foundation for a fulfilled life.

When you join Selfie School, you join a safe loving community place that will help you to find your way back to you.

Your Journey Back to You Starts Here

Access Knowledge, Tools and Unlimited Support


  • Monthly Self-Empowerment teachings, e.g. developing self-confidence self-belief, self-love, etc. (see curriculum below).
  • Bonus content

Tools & Resources

  • Powerful techniques that will give you instant relief from anxiety and other uncomfortable emotions
  • Fun activities to reinforce your learning
  • Practical, easy to use transformative tools, that will leave you feeling confident, in charge of your emotions and your life.


  • Support via Whatsapp Group
  • Weekly Q & A's
  • Group Coaching
  • Access to live online clinics
  • Membership to our very supportive Community

Powerful, Valuable and Affordable.

Only $27pm

I joined because I wanted to understand myself better when it came to romantic relationships and because I wanted to understand why I struggled with imposter syndrome. The tools and tips made me look at life differently. The most amazing thing about this programme is the way it's approached with structure, yet also with an ease to the way we do everything. You don't feel like just another student or client, you feel like a part of a community. Group sessions are the best, it's so nice to know I wasn’t alone. The support is incredible. I have already resolved my imposter syndrome issue and I have clarity with regards to having a new romantic relationship.

— Dev

I joined because my work situation was so bad and I wanted to feel better and have help making decisions.

It’s changed me because now my focus is on myself and my family not work.

This has helped me to understand that it’s ok to focus on myself and that by doing that I am learning what makes me happy and what brings me down. I’ve started putting myself into uncomfortable situations and taking opportunities which has really paid off. I even joined a women’s cricket team. I’m absolutely rubbish at it and when I bowl I can barely get the ball to reach the batsman 😂 but it’s such good fun. By being happier in myself I’ve noticed how much my relationships have improved as well.

— Emma

I joined because I was struggling with self-love and believing in myself. I doubted my abilities and was always hesitant to get started with things that I love to do. I wanted to get to know myself better so that I can live with more direction and purpose in life. Within the first week I already had a huge shift. I couldn't believe how easy it can be to start loving and appreciating yourself with the correct tools and techniques we used. I also loved meeting other people with similar issues. This program is so real in the sense that we were able to deal with our issues in a safe and non-judgemental space. We had amazing support from coach Debbie who gave us practical tools that we can use in our daily lives. Thank you Deb, I will be forever grateful.

— Bonita

For women who want more out of life and need a little help getting it!

I joined as I wanted to learn how to love myself more. Debbie is such a lovely person and really wants to see you love yourself. She truly connects with you and understands what you are going through. She gives you tools to use to work through things that are happening in your life. I also loved the support I got from the community. I am so grateful to be a part of this, and for our coaching.

— Julie

I joined after going through a terrible breakup and went into this with a very low self-esteem because of the rejection. I loved how you shared your story with us, and just looking and listening to you made me feel safe. I also loved that when I struggled with anything, that you the coach, is only a Whatsapp away. When I found you, it came at the perfect time. I found ME again. I am so grateful for you and what you do for others.

So thank you again Deborah, you are appreciated.


— Faith

I joined because of you, how you helped me with children, what an example you are, and me being an anxiety driven worrier. I couldn't help myself and it's taken a toll on my health. Because of this group, I am now more in control of things I can actually control and I have more control of myself and my body when I can't control things.

— Lumen

Integrate Your Whole Self

Body, Mind, Spirit & Soul

I joined because I felt something was missing in my life and I needed guidance in finding my true self again. I found you randomly on Facebook and watched one of your videos and felt an instant connection with you. I felt a warm positive vibe off you. I also particularly like the fact that you kick my ass into gear when it is needed and it comes from a place of love, compassion and passion. x

— Annie

The reason I joined was because I needed to connect with myself. I've felt lost many times mentally and emotionally, not knowing where to start. Thanks to your help and guidance I now know that a lot of my issues have to do with my childhood and upbringing. I now start there if I have things that I need to deal with and often I am able to help myself out of emotional struggles by identifying the root cause.

— Romona

As a business owner, wife and mother I was struggling to stay positive and often felt overwhelmed and anxious with everything on my plate, this group has helped me in so many ways, how to cope with anxiety and not punishing myself anymore for things beyond my control and to start being more accepting of myself and positive about what I can achieve!

— Diane

Join Selfie School

and carry your own personal Counselor / Therapist / Coach wherever you go!

Deborah McPhilemy | Mentor | Master Trainer | Author | Creator | Spiritual Teacher

The day I decided to be myself, to love and accept who I was, my entire life took on a whole new meaning. My purpose started to unfold, I felt closer and more connected to my loved ones and I felt more connected to God and to life than I'd ever felt before. I was also able to let go of people, habits and things that were not adding meaning to my life. To set my boundaries, be more assertive and to stop people-pleasing. I feel fulfilled and at peace, nothing gives me more joy than helping other women to get to this place too.